How To Meet Women These Days?
These days, dating and meeting new people has been a little bit harder to do as compared to how things were before. With varying quarantine rules and regulations all around the world, How how to meet a women?
Ensure you’re ready to meet women
It’s one thing to want to meet women, but it’s another thing to be ready to meet women.
What do I mean by this? A good round up to check if you’re ready is to ask yourself if you’re mentally, emotionally and physically ready to be around people and women again.
Being mentally ready is one thing that needs a lot of work. Being in quarantine and having limited social interaction might have affected your ability to charm your way into her life, or into her pants. So, how do you make yourself mentally ready? You have to ask the heavy hitting questions like “can I still open up a conversation and keep it going?” “Am I ready to step out and throw myself out there or do i feel a little pang of social anxiety?”
By considering your mental health and overall wellbeing, you’re avoiding two things:
- Embarrassing yourself in front of a woman (or worse, a group of people),
- You’ve saving someone from having to deal with your social anxiety.
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Looking at your emotional capacity is something that you should consider as well. Are you meeting women to get away from the things you’re running away from? Or are you meeting women to have fun or get into relationships with? Are you using meeting women as a crutch? Is it something that you truly want to do and are ready for? No one wants to be the rehabilitation center for a man with baggage. If you think that you’re doing this to get over something or someone, then it’s best to deal with that before trying to get into the dating pool.
Being physically ready isn’t just about being fit and confident in your own skin, although that is very important. What I mean by this is, have you been taking care of yourself properly? Taking showers, shaving your face, manscaping – the whole 9 yards of hygiene. It’s important that you look (and smell) the part of a well put-together man when meeting women. First impressions last, and it’s best that you make the best first impression that you can.
Look, it’s no secret that sometimes you just need a quick shag to get things out of your system. And honestly, Tinder is the best place to look for one-night stands or fuck buddies.
With Tinder, things are more simple. When you’re on Tinder, it’s already safe to assume that you’re down to hook up and just keep things low-key. With a couple of swipes and a few casual exchange. You’ll find yourself ready to bed for a pretty lady in no time.
Just remember, if you’re hooking up in your place, tidy up a bit. Make sure that there’s no evidence of you sleeping around with other women (i.e: no thongs laying around or earrings “mistakenly left” on the bedside table) because no woman wants to feel like she’s intruding on something.
Quick tip: you can clean your house or apartment but it could still smell of sex. It’s one of the most hard-to-remove smells out here. The best thing to do is to purchase a diffuser and chuck some essential oils in it. I highly recommend using bamboo essential oil, it masks the smell of sex perfectly and smells expensive even thought it isn’t. In addition to this, it’s a nice little touch that makes the impression of you knowing your way around household items and looking like you’ve got your life put together. More importantly, it’s a nice mood setter.
Another one of the more reliable dating apps, Bumble is more known for setting dates with women who want to get into relationships. This app is made for proper dating and making friends.
Bumble, it’s a more female-friendly app for dating. Its main feature is that women are supposed to message men first, and once they send the message, men only have 24 hours to respond. If you don’t respond within 24 hours, you lose the match.
Since it’s female-friendly, people on this site are leaning towards having more serious dates and conversations. There’s a bigger success rate for people who end up in relationships or married wherein the couple met on Bumble as opposed to other dating apps or websites. I’d like to believe it’s because of how women are in control of whether or not they want to speak to you.
If you’re the type of guy who doesn’t enjoy hooking up or casual things, it’s best for you to install Bumble and get to swiping. You’d have an amazing time meeting wonderful women in your area and truly getting to know them on a deeper, more intimate level.
If you’re someone more interested in meeting random people and you don’t believe in or support dating apps, then chat sites such as Omegle and ChatRoulette might be right up your alley.
Through these chat sites, you could virtually get in touch with people from all over the world. Your conversations could be through a text chat or a video chat format.
The upside of this is that you can talk to anyone, anytime because timezones don’t matter and someone is always awake to talk to you. You get to experience and see different cultures come alive from where you’re standing. The downside of this though, is that it’s usually unmonitored, and the odds of you talking to people jerking off or sometimes unmonitored minors (I don’t know which is worse, but the mix of those two is never a good thing) and honestly, just people being weird on the internet is high.
This is fun to do once in a while, but ultimately, it’s not nice to do long term.
With the rise of the count of people who are vaccinated, things are slowly opening back up and people are also slowly opening up to the idea of going out and having fun!
Of course, the risk of the virus is still there, but when you’re fully vaccinated and still being careful and regularly getting tested, having a little fun is never a bad idea. 2020 and the first half 2021 have been very trying for us, especially on a social level.
The best way to meet women is still to go outside and be social. Even if you did meet them on dating apps or chat sites, you’d still end up having to meet them in person anyways. Might as well get dressed and ready for a day or night downtown. The best thing about this is you never know what the night or day brings you.
In addition to this, the people you meet outside are people who are on the same mission as you: to meet new acquaintances and make connections! So meet up with your friends, and let yourself get introduced to their other friends. You might be meeting the lady you bring home for the night or the lady you’re the rest of your life with.